Weddings should be a fun event but planning them can really steal the magic away. There are details to plan and budgets to keep to, all on top of the physical pressures brides tend to face. So we want to help you minimize as much of that stress as we possibly can, by giving you some tried and true tips to have way less wedding stress and far more fun and magic. Enjoy these tips from both our family at Ontario Bakery and the experts of Brides.com.
Annoying as it is, sticking to a budget is a big blessing. Blowing through all your savings on your big day is bound to create some serious anxiety and stress in your relationship. That's why Dr. Orma recommends making your ceremony/reception as close to your dream wedding as you can, keeping in mind what you can easily afford and what you can't. After all, "Money is one of the top stressors for people."
Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Because of their control issues, perfectionists often have a hard time asking for assistance when they need it the most. "Don't try to do it all yourself," warns Dr. Orma. "Hire people to help you if you can afford it." Awedding planner who shares the same tastes and a similar style to you can be a perfectionist bride's BFF.
Make self care your number one. Perfectionist or not, wedding planning can be extremely stressful, and sometimes under stress we forget to do the basics, like eating, sleeping and resting, says Dr. Orma. "Self care is vital." Treat yourself to a nice massage or go for a run outside to release those endorphins.
You’ve got to have boundaries. Believe it or not, many perfectionists also tend to be people pleasers so it's important to not only set some boundaries with yourself, but with others too. "Don't take on more than you can handle and be willing to say no to pushy relatives or friends who try to tell you what to do," advises Dr. Orma.
Buy a dress you can move in and eat in. Before you say yes to the dress, make sure you're completely comfortable in it and can dance, move, walk, bend over and sit down with ease. "If it's too tight or not the style you wanted, that will only create discomfort and stress," cautions Dr. Orma.
For heaven’s sake, don’t wait. Procrastination and perfectionism often go hand in hand so do allow yourself enough time to plan the wedding of your dreams. "Pace yourself and take plenty of breaks," suggests Dr. Orma. And remember not to let indecision get the best of you. Once you've settled on a color scheme, theme or any idea really, stop perusing wedding blogs and Pinterest for inspiration.
Only hire a baker with a good reputation. No matter where you are in the nation, it’s important to go with a trusted bakery for your wedding cake. This is a centerpiece that will not only be photographed but enjoyed by all. It should be the right color, size and flavor with the perfects accents to compliment your wedding ambiance. Check out reviews. Go in for a tasting. If you’re in the Orange County or Los Angeles area, we at Ontario Bakery are happy to serve you. You can even meet with one of our experienced cake stylists to make sure your cake is the perfect match!
Those tips are golden and will save you a world of stress and frustration and we hope you’re able to use them right away. This is your day, so let it be great, not just then but starting today. And remember, whatever the sweet need, we at Ontario Bakery are ready and excited to make your day wonderful and memorable because you deserve nothing less!